"Finding the love of my life at 21 years old.....don´t think so......! Besides I´m better off on my own! #foreveralone" That is the tweet that gave me the idea of this post! 


Love is a really important thing on every human´s life, but should love be my biggest quest on this time of my life? I´m not even 21 years old yet soonner I will. I mean I have seen people who is "inlove" having fights and when I say fight is the physicall agression it self. I have seen so many things that I disagree. If love is what they actually call love then I think I´m better off on my own. 


One of my friends always ask me.......you still single? And so far I always answered him: "Yes, I am" and he express like well.......thats not something weird coming from you, but why? And now I can answer that question.


I remember when I was 15th I use to dream about perfect love and how a lot of people actually find it and all the good it would be having a real love or even the love of my life by this time.........Of course I was only 15th. 


Now I have too many things on my head, personal goals, and I think: Love consumes time, Love makes you spent money, Love makes you think on love when you are trying to focus. I mean those are not bad things but I dont want to consume time in other thing now, I want to finish my career, I want to have a better job and I want to have my own apartment. Then probably get inlove..........but as my grandpa told me once, you might wait for the love of your life...........but will the love of your life wait for you? And I was without arguments I just close my mouth, because my grandpa was right. What if that happens? What if the love of my life gets tired of be waiting for me because I´m avoiding that situation right now.


Well If love comes I think I better open my arms and mind to say hi, give him a hug and give a chance to love......... and see how it comes!