Sex is overrated.

I didn't have sex. I lied to my best friend, and to two of my closest friends. I didn't have sex with a turk, nor with a french, I did flirt with them, it was a funny night for about two weeks, flirt, touch, some kisses and smiles, but just a game, no sex. 
I lied because it seems that I still care what people will think of me, and in this case I didn't want it to be "the one without sex" but I realise now that I was just wrong and I did a stupid thing  and now I realise that I'm not proud of the lie, even tough is not that bad but still.....a lie!

Sex is overated, and I'm not saying it to justify my lie or the no sex in some people's life, my asexuality is a decision because I choose to stop being someone who just have sex for feeling some pleasure just becase, I decided to have the full package, someone who is worth it, I decided to stay single, to focus on me and to be inlove with my self before falling in love with someone else. 

I was tired to see how society moves around sex, being a cheater and just being a puta or a puto is not worth it. I felt empty and dirty after having a one night stand or just having something for fun, and most of the times having sex with someone I thought I was their date and actually it was just my mind playing with me. 

I got hurt because of sex, I have seen how many friends got hurt due to sex, I saw how one friend got an STD because of ......SEX. 
There are so many things that are more important than having sex, such as having a nice conversation, being with someone who actually THINKS, having a good connection, flirting, rimming and just playing, believe me now I know, I thought that I would never had an orgasm without sex.......but I guess I was WRONG. Yes you can have orgasms without sex and no I don't mean masturbation. If you don't believe it google it.

Sex is overated, people is just too superficial and in general, society is too damned worried about sex than for growing up. Girls always end up feeling something, guys always end up fucking around, lesbians and gays are even more horny than straight people so therefore there is more cheating, more people getting hurt, more dissappointment and more .....stds. 


So at the beggining I thought it would be so imposible to just not have sex, but then I just open my eyes and realise that I really need it a time with my self, only me, no one else, being alone!

Many times we start dating someone, you end up having sex and then you don't even know that person, then you go out with that person again, you have sex again, then you don't even talk anymore, you have amazing sex, then after a few months you realise that you have been just having sex and wasting your time, then you realise that you don't know that person at all and then you realise that "that" person is having sex with someone that is not you and then you feel betrayed for NOTHING. 

The world is crazy about sex, many people even get dressed for having a hook up and have sex one night, which I think is very stupid and lame. If you will go out, just do it for having fun, with your friend not for having sex!
So many friendships are destroyed because of sex, why do you get involved with the your bestfriend's ex? Or why do destroy your ex new relationship because you miss the sex, that's very lame and selfish!







I love the old school style. I like to wait, to know someone and that you have your first date and then you realise that is amazing to be spending time with that person, then when you kiss that person you realise that those are the best lips ever!

After a few dates you realise that those are the best kisses you have ever had and that you are all wet without cumming or maybe you already had but since you were so excited just having some kisses, you didn't realise about it because you were enjoying so much. Then you can do some oral skills (which I don't consider as sex?) And maaaaaaan it feels good to fall in love. 

Why society thinks too much about sex? When is pretty obvious that is not everything you need, no one has died by no having sex! Actually many, I'm sorry....MILLIONS have died because of SEX! (Google it)

Sex is overrated.